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Play well

A self-check, healthy habits, PEGI ratings, money in games, family settings, online safety and free UK support.

01Why a games journal writes this

We spend our time recommending worlds to get lost in, so we owe you the other half of the story. Games are at their best as one good part of a full life. This guide gathers the habits, settings and free help that keep them there, for you and for the people you play with.

02A quick self-check

Over the last few months, which of these are true for you?

This is a prompt for reflection, not a diagnosis. Your answers stay in this page and are never saved or sent.

03Plan the session

  • Decide the length before you start and set a timer: consoles, PCs and phones all have one, and our session planner does the same job in a browser tab.
  • Stop at a natural pause, such as the end of a chapter, a voyage or a match, rather than at “one more”.
  • Keep some evenings game-free, especially before exams, early shifts and family plans.
  • Notice sessions that ran long without you choosing to keep going. That is worth adjusting.

04Breaks, eyes and posture

  • Take five to ten minutes away from the screen every hour.
  • Every twenty minutes, look at something about six metres away for twenty seconds.
  • Sit with your back supported and the screen at eye level; keep water close.
  • Stop if you feel pain in your wrists, neck or eyes, dizziness, nausea or a headache.

05Sleep first

Finish at least an hour before bed. Late sessions push sleep back, and bright, exciting screens make it harder to drop off. Most teenagers need eight to ten hours a night and most adults seven to nine; if a game keeps eating into that, move it earlier in the day.

06Age ratings in the UK

Games sold in the UK carry PEGI labels: PEGI 3, 7, 12, 16 and 18. Content descriptors explain the reasons for a rating, and a separate notice flags in-game purchases, with (includes random items) where paid packs or boxes of unknown contents are sold. PEGI 12, 16 and 18 are legally enforceable for games sold in UK shops, and the Games Rating Authority administers the system here. The PEGI label guide explains every symbol.

07Money inside games

  • Many games sell optional extras after you buy them, and some free games are built around them. Decide on a monthly amount before you play, not during.
  • Virtual coins and gems hide real prices. Convert them back into pounds before you buy.
  • Paid random items, often called loot boxes, mean paying without knowing what you will get. That uncertainty is exactly what makes it easy to keep buying. Where you can, skip them.
  • UK games companies have agreed industry principles that under-18s should not be able to buy paid random items without a parent or carer knowing. Platform spending limits make that real at home.
  • Keep purchase approval switched on, remove saved cards from children’s accounts and check statements now and then.

08Family settings that help

Every major platform includes free tools to limit play time, cap spending, filter content by age and control who can send messages: Xbox Family Settings, PlayStation Family Management, Nintendo Switch Parental Controls, Steam Families, Apple Screen Time and Google Family Link. Set them up together with your children and explain why; rules agreed at the start work far better than rules imposed mid-game.

09Staying safe online

  • Never share your full name, address, school, passwords or photos with people you meet in a game.
  • Use chat filters and keep voice and text chat to friends where you can.
  • Block and report anyone who is abusive or pushy, or who asks you to move to a private app, send pictures or keep secrets.
  • If an adult is talking to a child in a way that feels wrong, report it to CEOP, the police’s child protection command. Internet Matters has step-by-step guides for every console and app.

10Comfort and accessibility

Read the photosensitivity warning before you play: a small number of people can have seizures triggered by flashing lights or patterns, sometimes without any history of epilepsy. Use the comfort settings many games now include, such as reduced motion and camera shake, field-of-view sliders, subtitles, colour-blind modes and difficulty assists. Using them is playing the game properly.

11Signs play is turning into a problem

The World Health Organization recognises “gaming disorder” when gaming takes priority over other interests and daily life despite the harm it causes, usually over a year or more. Things worth noticing, in yourself or someone close to you:

  • playing much longer than planned, again and again;
  • losing sleep, skipping meals, school, work or plans with friends;
  • feeling irritable, low or anxious when not playing;
  • spending more money than intended, or hiding how much;
  • dropping other hobbies and people.

The NHS runs a specialist National Centre for Gaming Disorders for people aged 13 and over in England and Wales, and a GP can help you find the right support anywhere in the UK.

12Talking to someone about it

Start with curiosity, not a verdict: ask what they enjoy about the game and how they feel after a long session. Agree small, specific changes together instead of an outright ban, and suggest other plans that are genuinely fun. If nothing improves, a GP or one of the services below can help.

13Free, confidential support

Paid random items such as loot boxes share a lot with gambling: you pay without knowing what you will get, and it is easy to chase the next one. If time or money spent on games feels out of control, for you or someone close to you, these organisations offer free and confidential help in the UK and online:

  • GamCare

    Free, confidential information and counselling for anyone worried about how gambling or compulsive play is affecting their life, with a helpline (0808 8020 133) open around the clock and an online chat option.

    Visit GamCare

  • BeGambleAware

    An independent charity offering confidential advice, self-assessment tools and practical guidance for understanding your own habits and taking back control at your own pace.

    Visit BeGambleAware

  • Gambling Therapy

    Free emotional and practical support for individuals and families worldwide: online support groups, self-help resources and trained advisers you can reach from home.

    Visit Gambling Therapy

14Young, or worried right now

These services are free, confidential and there for anything, not only games:

  • Childline

    For anyone under 19, about anything at all: call 0800 1111 or chat online, free and private, day or night.

    Visit Childline

  • Samaritans

    Somebody to talk to at any hour: call 116 123 free from any phone, or email jo@samaritans.org.

    Visit Samaritans

  • YoungMinds

    Mental health help for young people, plus a helpline for parents and carers worried about a child.

    Visit YoungMinds

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999. For urgent medical advice that is not an emergency, call NHS 111 or visit nhs.uk.

15For parents and carers

Ask your children to show you the games they love, and play with them sometimes: ten minutes together teaches more than an hour of rules. Keep consoles in shared rooms where you can, agree screen-free times such as meals and the hour before bed, and aim for balance rather than bans.

16How this site is built

Glimmerby has no accounts, notifications, streaks, countdowns or rewards for coming back, because none of that helps anyone choose well. Questions about this guide are welcome at editors@glimmerby.com.